I know how much courage it takes to take this first step.<\/p>
My name is Lisa Enik Indrayani. I was given the first name Lisa when I was adopted in the Netherlands. Enik is my Indonesian birth name, and Indrayani is my Indonesian surname. For a long time, I used only my Dutch first name and the surname of my adoptive father. I consciously chose to legally change my name and reclaim my birth surname, Indrayani. This was an important step in reconnecting with my identity and my origins.<\/p>
Enik is pronounced as \u201cEh-neek,\u201d although many people say \u201cEn-ik\u201d which is literally translated as “and me”. <\/span><\/p>I like that too, because in my work with clients that very movement often emerges: the dynamic between Lisa as a guide and the other person in their own process.<\/p>
I work as a Traumasexologist. It is a privilege to accompany you, even if only for a time, on your journey toward recovery.
My personal path has led me to my life\u2019s mission: supporting adults in their recovery from sexual abuse, sexual violence, or incest experienced during childhood, adolescence, or early adulthood.<\/p>
What makes my guidance distinctive is that I bring together knowledge, experience, inner wisdom, and genuine involvement.
I have studied the theory, undergone the therapy myself, and experienced the field of damage firsthand. This makes my guidance both professional and deeply human. Through my lived experience and professional expertise, I am able not only to understand what has happened to you, but also to make it tangible and recognisable within the sessions. This creates the safety you need to take steps in your recovery process at a pace and in a way that truly suits you.<\/p>
I am no stranger to personal struggles. I have faced and worked through my adoption trauma and sexual abuse trauma. Because of this, I know how lonely, confusing, and heavy this path can be. But I also know that recovery is possible.
I believe that my own growth and dedication are essential in order to guide others. From that foundation, I fully commit myself to helping the powerful person within you to blossom someone who not only recognises and protects their boundaries, but also expresses them, feels safe in their own body, and can shine with self-love and self-worth. Living in freedom instead of surviving in fear.<\/p>
In my practice, I initially focused on women, but over time more and more men and adoptees have found their way to me. I increasingly meet people in whom adoption trauma and sexual trauma are intertwined a complex and often invisible combination. A complex and often invisible combination that leaves deep traces. It is a painful, sometimes toxic cocktail of abandonment anxiety, shame, and a fundamental lack of existential safety. This makes it all the more important that there is a place where they, too, can feel seen, understood, and supported in their unique recovery process.<\/p>
Perhaps you have already tried many things, or you feel that this is not for you. Precisely then, it can be valuable to explore this path, because my approach goes beyond talking alone. I work with systemic chair constellations from the Traumasexology, developed by Peter John Schouten. In this work, you do not only talk you also experience, feel, and physically sense what is happening within your inner structure. By mapping the damage, we create new movement that makes recovery possible.<\/p>
Precisely because I have experienced firsthand how profound and disruptive this specific trauma can be, I know how important it is to rediscover lightness and balance in life. Today, I have regained more and more of that balance, and this gives me the conviction that recovery truly is possible.
Alongside my work, I find it essential to nourish myself through small things: making music, reading, and enjoying good food together with loved ones.<\/p>
Recovery is not easy, but it is certainly not impossible. There is no quick fix: recovery is a slow and steady process in which every step counts. Trauma often becomes deeply embedded in your inner system over many years, and sometimes through repeated experiences, which means change cannot happen overnight. Wherever you begin today is exactly the right place in your own recovery process. Everything you have done so far has contributed to where you are now. Trust that.
For one person, this process may take half a year; for another, it may take several years. It unfolds step by step, and the time between sessions is especially valuable, this is where integration happens and where what we have touched is given the space to settle. Even a pause does not have to mean stagnation; it can in fact act as a catalyst for new movement<\/p>
We will work together to untangle the knot of what feels confusing, heavy, or stuck. I cannot do the work for you, but I can guide and support you in finding the right direction. Together, we explore the possibilities, learn from the challenges, and celebrate progress.
I stand beside you as an ally, as a temporary guide on your path toward recovery.<\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t
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